most women are impulsive. they tend to listen what their heart is trying to tell them and believe me the results are not always good. in fact, it almost never do any good for us. women are easily affected and sometimes we just wanna forget or pretend to forget that we have some logic that would probably help us out from a disaster we might caused if doing what our heart tells. we just like to play around so dangerously even if we know that we might get hurt.
are we women insane or what? we just took whatever chances we've got merely to pull ourselves closer to that guy while that guy might not feels the same way about us. but we dont really care do we? as long as we are passing our signs to him correctly we'll do just fine. yeah dats what we often think about how relationship will work. but these isn't just the thing i wanna discuss over here anyway. i am more concern about how we're gonna handle the situation when the guy we have a crush on is just not into us. when the guy we like doesn't like us back then it will be a complete misery. i've experienced such things before and it feels completely awful. but the thing that i really don't get is why almost all woman just couldn't be honest when giving advice to their friends.
when i was having such a terrible love stake about guys, my friends would support me by telling "well maybe he's just... this... and.. that..." and i was just stood in silence and pretended she was right about the whole thing, but actually deep down in my heart i know that all the things she said is nonsense. the guy is just not into me! dat's it. that's the right answer. it's as simple as that. sometimes i hate why women couldn't be brave enough to embrace their sad friends and to tell the truth about what they're really thinking.
yes i know that most of women don't wanna hurt their own best friends by telling the truth, i dont know whether you are the type of woman who just couldn't bear the truth or not, but i could convince you that im not that kind of woman! i want people to tell me the truth even if it hurts so bad! i need the truth because dat's what will help me to move on otherwise i'll be stuck thinking about him and will never let him go because im still giving my hopes up towards him who doesnt even care about me.
i dont know when these not-telling-the-truth tradition will stop but i really wanna change it particularly because it's not helping each other. women think too much about love. we're just too innocent to see what will men do if they're the one who have a crush on us because we're too busy trying and hoping that it might actually work. well i am as weak as the other women when it comes to love, but ive learnt that it's better not to be needy. i know it's killing both you and me. but please try not to be weak when you're head over heels.
are we women insane or what? we just took whatever chances we've got merely to pull ourselves closer to that guy while that guy might not feels the same way about us. but we dont really care do we? as long as we are passing our signs to him correctly we'll do just fine. yeah dats what we often think about how relationship will work. but these isn't just the thing i wanna discuss over here anyway. i am more concern about how we're gonna handle the situation when the guy we have a crush on is just not into us. when the guy we like doesn't like us back then it will be a complete misery. i've experienced such things before and it feels completely awful. but the thing that i really don't get is why almost all woman just couldn't be honest when giving advice to their friends.
when i was having such a terrible love stake about guys, my friends would support me by telling "well maybe he's just... this... and.. that..." and i was just stood in silence and pretended she was right about the whole thing, but actually deep down in my heart i know that all the things she said is nonsense. the guy is just not into me! dat's it. that's the right answer. it's as simple as that. sometimes i hate why women couldn't be brave enough to embrace their sad friends and to tell the truth about what they're really thinking.
yes i know that most of women don't wanna hurt their own best friends by telling the truth, i dont know whether you are the type of woman who just couldn't bear the truth or not, but i could convince you that im not that kind of woman! i want people to tell me the truth even if it hurts so bad! i need the truth because dat's what will help me to move on otherwise i'll be stuck thinking about him and will never let him go because im still giving my hopes up towards him who doesnt even care about me.
i dont know when these not-telling-the-truth tradition will stop but i really wanna change it particularly because it's not helping each other. women think too much about love. we're just too innocent to see what will men do if they're the one who have a crush on us because we're too busy trying and hoping that it might actually work. well i am as weak as the other women when it comes to love, but ive learnt that it's better not to be needy. i know it's killing both you and me. but please try not to be weak when you're head over heels.
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i second everything u say...
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