what is a father to us? is he just a person who care for you since you were a baby or is he meant something a lot more than that? before anything else, my dad is not like the other common dad who are always off to work every morning and dont do the household work. my dad on the other hand is a decent man who just chose to stay at home and do the househusband things, if that's what a proper word to use-househusband. anyway, he is an adorable man who really love his kids and wanting to spare lots of his times taking care of the kids. my father is an angel sent from heaven.
he makes breakfast (fish/beef porridge with eggs on it-chicken fried rice-vegetables soup-omelette-etc), lunch (blackpepper beef-chicken soup- char kway teow-drunken chicken-wonton noodle soup-hainan chicken rice-butter fried chicken-prawn&mushrooms-sweet&sour fried fish-rendang-fish meatballs-beef tofu-steamed oyster crab-seaweed soup-pork chop-yellow chicken soup- red chicken soup-corn soup-fried shrimp in butter-shark's fin soup-etc etc), dinner. he also can make soya milk, medicine soup, chinese health tea. he cuts fruits for us, cooks for us, supervises our behaviour and makes jokes with us. Although he often get angry, but i know he never stop loving us because we are what's important for him the most. it's amazing to have a dad like him because we know it seldom to have a dad who can cook lots of foods and actually care to ask us what food we wanna eat that day and also for the next. he would also picked us up from school, take us to the tutor school afterwards, buy us lots of bread and food. he just doesnt want us to get hungry and he doesnt like too see us skinny because he cares about our health. he sacrifices his ego so we can get whatever we want. everytime we wanna buy something unimportant, he would jabbered a lot but in the end he always gives us the money. he always tells us that as a family we have to look for each other, sincere each other and protect each other as well. also to never get envy, mad, or do injustice to each other. he's just really a good man who wants us to love each other in the family with no boundaries. he is also the one who come to the parents meeting in my school, gets to meet my teacher and take my annual report. he also helps my mom in her clothing shop, so he sometimes take care of two or three things together and never complaining. i know he's not perfect, he must be tired too especially since he opened wallet bird nest business out of town his schedule becomes more tight. but he still cares and still bother to ask us about small things we've been doing lately. those are only little things he does to make his family happy but it does work like magic. we feel his love and the love grows even bigger than before. man! i just feel so blessed to have a dad like him. now that he's old and time keeps on moving i would like to capture every moment together with him because i know what will matters most is the memory that we're gonna keep forever.
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